Thursday, May 21, 2015

Compliments

When I was in first grade, I was in love with my teacher. Miss E. was the best teacher in the entire world. She was fun, energetic, consistent, and I learned so much. She knew songs and poetry. She did art. She let us write on the chalkboard for phonics time. She pushed me on the swings at recess time. She knew poems like the Boa Constrictor and the Sugar Plum Fairy. She had long, beautiful, flowing dark brown, almost black hair and big brown eyes. I wanted to be just like her. 
For Mother's Day, we wrote in our journals about us and our mothers. I also drew a picture of my mom and me. In my picture, both my mother and I look exactly like Miss E. 
In reality, my mom had light brown hair and blue eyes. I had blond hair and blue eyes. In my journal, my mom and I both had long flowing black hair and big brown eyes. We were holding hands wearing matching dresses that looked suspiciously like one of Miss E.'s dresses. Needless to say, I thought highly of the woman.  

Today I was working with Sydney's small group. Sydney is a high-energy, hard-working, unconditionally-loving, wonderfully-independent, and fully-latina first grader. While we were reading and discussing a levelled reader, she looked up at me and said "Mrs. Roosma, when I'm una grande, I want ojos azules just like yours. They're so bright!" (with the word bright she did a hand motion to demonstrate just how they shine and rolled her "r" a little extra because that's what she always does). A few minutes later, it was time for them to clean up and go to lunch. She stood next to the table and when I stood up, gave me a big hug around my waist and said, "I'll miss you Miss Roosma!" (yes, she tells me that she will miss me when she goes to lunch for half an hour).

I don't think Sydney realized it, but of all the compliments and encouragements that I have received this year, this one is the most valued. Maybe she doesn't think of me like I did of Miss E., but if even a teeny-tiny part of her admires me the way that I admired Miss E, then I must be doing something right. 

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

John-isms

"I getting married."

Past tense = did + present tense. For example: "The itsy bitsy spider did go up the water spout. Down came the rain and did wash the spider out. The sun did come out and he did go up again."

In preparation for his first movie night (Frozen), Eric told him to go get some movie pajamas. He came back with the bright pink hand-me-down pajamas from his cousin and said "They my Frozen jammies!"

Driving past Anna's Restaurant he said "It's the letter A!"

Eric was looking at an article with a picture of the king of Jordan, who was wearing a military uniform. John looked at the picture and said "It's a king." We tried for two minutes to figure out how he knew it was a king, but he just kept telling us it was a king. 

"Mommy, I need a fork to match my pancakes." (I give him an orange fork) "No Mommy. I need a black fork. My pancake is black." (And mom of the year award goes to..... Not the lady who burns her kids pancakes.)

"Mommy, I think your car a little dirty. Maybe we need to wash it. Maybe let's go to the car wash." (I blame Aunty April for this kid's love of the car wash. Also, he frequently cut's out the 'to be' verbs from his talking )

"This a girl coat" (while putting on his sister's purple coat) "I beautiful!" 

After telling John we were going to visit my friend. "I have friends. I have my own friends" (who are your friends buddy? "Corianna and Reagan and Uncle Nathan and Aunty Lauren and Oma and Opa and Great Grandma. They all my friends"

In the sweetest voice ever: "Mom, can you cuddle me and read me a story?"

"Audrey, don't throw your food, you will be hungry! Here, you throw Sam's food."

"Good night. I love you mommy-with-no-penis."

And there are too many more to ecen keep track. If only we had a record on this boy. 

Emotional Literacy

Something to contemplate and work on with John:

http://ww2.kqed.org/mindshift/2015/04/13/the-benefits-of-helping-preschoolers-understand-and-discuss-their-emotions/

This boy has quite the highs and lows. It's exhausting trying to keep up with him. He is the most pleasant boy. He is the sweetest boy. He is the funniest boy. He is the loudest boy. He is the angriest boy. He is the most impatient boy. He is the meanest boy. He is the most demanding boy. He is the most indecisive boy. He is the most energetic boy. All of those happen within about 10 minutes.

Now to help him understand what is going on...

Saturday, February 7, 2015

Chocolate

I rarely, if ever, buy chocolate. Thursday, I wrote it on my grocery shopping list because I had searched the house high and low and couldn't find any. 

Friday instead of coffee, I made hot chocolate for breakfast and took it with me in my travel mug. 

Today I made John a snowman pancake and (with no prompting, begging, or whining from him) got out the chocolate syrup to give him eyes, mouth, and buttons. He got upset because it wasn't regular syrup, so I licked the chocolate syrup off myself. 



On an unrelated note, guess which on of my aunts is here to visit for a week. 
(hint: she's my least favorite). 

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Breakfast

For a second, I thought leaving my kids on the chairs in the kitchen during snack time might make me a bad mom. Then I changed my mind and decided that I'm a good mom for finding a creative way to entertain my children while I clean the kitchen. If they can't be outside due to "hazardous/incliment weather conditions," the next best thing is looking outside while they eat their cheerios. 


Monday, January 26, 2015

Dictionary (according to a working mother of 2)


8:00 pm: when I am free to relax with no kids... but only after I clean the entire house, do all my lesson planning, and go back in JB's room roughly 15 times for requests covering all of, but not limited to the following:  water, book, light, door, diaper, medicine, fan, humidifier, blanket, song, prayer, animal, doll, etc. 

Bedtime: when we go to war with JB.

Coffee: when I hit 10:00 am and realize I'm addicted.

Dissapointment: when I set down the coffee I poured at 10:00 am and don't find it until noon, and it's cold. 

Excellent Christmas Present: when my husband buys me a coffee mug that keeps my coffee warm for 12 hours, so that no matter when I find it, it's still drinkable. 

Exhausted: when I fall asleep at 8:34 pm and sleep all night (for three days in a row). Also known as sick. 

Fertile: when I want to jump my husband all day long but abstain because 9 months is too soon for 3. 

Finished: when there are six full baskets of laundry downstairs, but they are all CLEAN and DRY. 

Gross: when no matter how hard I try, I still can't get the saliva, dirt, food, oil, bodily fluids, dog hair, and who knows what else off of AJ's Beanie Baby Bear because I can't get it away from her for long enough to put it in the washing machine. 

Helpful: when, after AJ spills, John helps me scrub the floor. Then he dumps out the rest of the bottle so that he can help me clean up again. 

Improvisation: when the copy machine is broken and my entire day of lesson plans changes in 2 minutes. 

Naptime: when I lock my toddler in his room and let him do whatever he wants for an hour and a half.

Productivity: when I get a whole basket of laundry folded before a single pile gets pulled off the table by a toddler.  

Teacher: when I can get 27 first graders to follow directions all day with no problem, but can't get my 2 year old to listen for more than 5 minutes without getting frustrated.

There are so many more I could add, but it's 9:00pm and I'm ready for bed! Maybe later. 

Thursday, January 1, 2015

2014

What a year! I started off the year about 50 pounds heavier than I am now. No, my New Years resolution was not to lose weight, I was 9 months pregnant when this year started. Here's a quick breakdown of the most exciting moments of 2014. 

January: 
Jenna Nicole moved in with us to help out with childcare. (What a blessing!)
Audrey Jean was born (8 lbs 12 oz) on January 26. 
February: 
Grandpa and Grandma came to visit. 
Angela and Eric went on their first date leaving TWO kids at home on Valentines Day.
Angela went back to work at Kuyper February 17. 
March: 
John, Audrey, Oma, and Angela went to Colorado to visit the Bos family. 
Eric went to Texas on a mission trip. 
April: 
Angela cut her hair and finished working at Kuyper.
Angela hosted a mom's night sleepover.   
John and Audrey got a new baby cousin, Liam, in Indiana!
May: 
John turned two years old. 
John and Audrey got another new baby cousin, Ethan, in Michigan!
We spent Memorial Day weekend with friends in a cottage by a lake. 
June:
Jenna moved out and back to DeMotte.  
Angela started watching 2 extra kids for the summer. 
John, Audrey, Angela, and our 2 new friends went to parks, museums, farms, libraries, and more!
July: 
We spent a week with the extended Roosma family at a cottage on the lake!
Eric bought a new truck for his 26th birthday. 
August: 
Eric and Angela celebrated 5 years of marriage. 
Angela got called on, interviewed, offered, and accepted a full-time job at GRPS (all in about 2 weeks!)
John and Audrey got ANOTHER baby cousin, Annalyn Faith, in Alberta. 
September: 
Angela started teaching in a bilingual 1st grade classroom. 
Grandma and Grandpa Roosma visited and we went to Artprize. 
October:
John and Audrey went to Oma and Opa's for a weekend. 
Angela got to work late and sleep in for her 26th birthday. 
November:
We celebrated Thanksgiving/Christmas with the entire Hubers family in DeMotte!
Audrey started walking. 
December:
We spent a week in DeMotte at Opa and Oma's for Christmas. 
Brought in the new year at home, kids in bed, parents unpacking and relaxing. Here's to another exciting year!

Polar Express Day

Today in First Grade: 
We read the book "The Polar Express"
We wore pajamas. 
We followed train tracks in the hallway (duct tape tracks with masking tape cross bars connecting all the first grade classrooms, the bathrooms, and outside for recess. Straightest lines we've had all year!).
We marched around the playground in a train during recess along with many kids from other grades. 
We built train tracks with our groups. (yay for cooperative learning!)
We found magically appearing tickets for the Polar Express with our names on them!
We sequenced story events. 
We added and subtracted presents, bells, and train cars. 
We wrote our own Polar Express stories. 
We read and stamped our favorite lines from the story. 
We made a graph of our favorite parts of the story. 
We had a geography lesson about Grand Rapids and the North Pole. 
We watched the Polar Express movie. 
We ate popcorn. 
We drank hot chocolate. 
We ate cookies. 
We each took home a jingle bell to remember our day. 
We had a blast!

Those kids thought today was a fun day and didn't think they did any learning. I'm a sneaky teacher!
(This is from Friday, December 12. It got lost in my drafts).